I guess when you’re sending out hundreds of offer letters, you don’t have time to figure out who’s a he, she, post-grad, or other….but who cares? I’m going to Abu Dhabi!!!
My hand has been wrapped around my phone so much over the last month that I think I’ve developed arthritis! I keep checking, refreshing, and texting my interview buddies – just waiting for an offer. Finally, it came today!
12:30 pm There is a buzz on the google+ and facebook groups – people getting offers after weeks of uncertainty! I’m not really the type of teacher to have my phone out all the time, but this afternoon I had to keep checking.
2:20 pm My email came and I could not hold it in!!!
2:21 I start skipping around the classroom and telling the kids I won a trip to Abu Dhabi! Really, not the finest teaching moment, but there are just some things you cannot control-Utter Delight being one of them! They cheer for me and they groan when they realize it’s in the summer and not next week. I forgive them and continue jumping for joy!
2:30 Students are dismissed so I text my husband in all caps. Hubby knew this was coming and is just as thrilled as I am!
My sisters, however, remind me of the reality that is living oceans apart.
2:35 I text my sisters, Lisa and Nat, “I’m Moving to Abu Dhabi!”
2:40 Lisa’s reaction is a series of crying emoticons.
2:45 Natalie’s reaction is”But we’ll never see you…” followed by a shocked-face emoticon.
2:50 Lisa texts, “My babies will be 4 and 6 when you get back.”
I have to retract something I wrote earlier about being deserted…I wrote that I live miles away from friends and family and hardly ever see them. This is still true, but in perspective, I see them a whole lot more often than I’m going to be over the next few years. Baby Z just had her 1st sleepover with her cousins and loved it! Last week, when I needed to visit the doctor, my friend Maria was able to watch the kids for a few hours. When Baby Z gets sick, Grandma Gigi makes the drive over at 6 am to take care of her so I can still go to work. Grandma Ellen cannot go more than a few weeks without seeing us and the kids. My work BFF, the other Nancy O., occasionally crosses the bridge from New Jersey just to have lunch with me! None of this will be possible when we’re on separate continents!
Then there’s my best friend, Denise and my goddaughter, Jelisa, and a family that has intertwined with mine over the last 28 years. Throughout this past summer, we would meet at the pool or beach and Denise, who is SuperMom, brings all the things I forget (paper towels, sunblock, lunch). D says, “It sounds exciting, but we will miss you.” Jelisa’s reaction, “But I’m supposed to be their babysitter!”
Isn’t this what I wanted? Yes. It is going to be amazing for us. Is it going to be hard? Yes. I did not “win a trip” to Abu Dhabi. I got a new job. It’s going to be work. Fortunately, it is the type of work I love and a challenge that will fortify my career. Will I miss New York? Yes. The people here are amazing. We’re family. We will visit. We will be back.
In order to teach in NYC, sometimes you have to go away for a little while. Get some perspective. See what it’s like on the other side of the world. For anyone who has worked at the same place for many years, you start to feel like it’s the same old thing and you’re running on repeat. My students deserve better. So I’m going to come back renewed and better than ever.
There are, however, plenty of incentives to stay. But I can’t even think of those when I haven’t even been there yet. Like I told them at the interview, we’ll have to see how it goes.
PS – It may seem that I’ve left out Mom, Dad and My Little Brother, but their reactions deserve a whole post all to themselves. Coming soon!
*feature photo inspired by the post American Teacher in Qatar at www.phillygirl77.wordpress.com